You poor thing!! Trust me, their day will come!

Thank you for your kindness and support. It means so much to me. Strangers have been kinder to me this past year than my own husband of 22 years that I knew for 31 years total. Hard to believe. I doubt I will ever get over something like this. It was just too evil. On top of it, he completely blind-sided me with it al. Acted normal all the way up to him not coming home one night. Sent me a text that night that it was over. Completely shocked on top of it. I will never understand that kind of evil.

Thank you again.

I hurt for you. I have been divorced for nearly 14 yrs. Remember that you are a woman of God. Try never to speak ill of your husband or let your words get away from you. Simply and quietly state only the facts when talking to others. This will not only help you keep things in perspective, but it will be a source of strength for you as you go through this difficult time. ....but this too, soon shall pass. Others will be inspired by your courage and self control as you carry yourself in such a Godly way. I will continue to pray.

I am the woman who has been divorced for fourteen years. I just read that you received just a cold text from your husband about it being over. I too have just recently gotten a cold text saying things are over after a 2 year relationship. There was no warning for me either. It was out of my own over whelming pain that our paths crossed. I am so sorry that you have been betrayed that way. I will place your situation on the alter in a special way.

Thank you so very much. I will keep you all in my prayers too. God bless.

I will be praying that God mends both of hearts. The Bible tells us to guard our hearts and I find that when I ask for a revelation that He will surely give it to me. I have had my heart broken so many times that I pray for His Will Even in a relationship. Consult God for Everything. 1 Peter 5:7 says Cast ALL your cares (problems,issues) upon Him for He cares for You. This means him (your ex). Give Him over to The Lord Vengeance is mine thus says The Lord. Whatever we do in life we are going to get it back far more than we ever gave it out, trust me they are both going to get there's. Do NOT please do not curse them don't put your mouth on them (don't talk bad about them) ..remember the Bible tells us to pray for our enemy...it also says that God will make your enemy your foot stool. .. so even though it hurts wish them well. ..grin and bear it while you are in there presences and when U get behind close doors cry out to God. My motto is NEVER let them see you sweat. I will bless them this way I will be blessed!!! If I'm broke I sow seeds... This way my household will be blessed. ..If you are faithful to God He will be faithful to you.
Now I hope this Bless U... Girl, bye is what U should say to her postings on the internet...turn it off Why are U giving her the audience she wants U...If the relationship was So good it would be NO need to flaunt it to U...um mm U never thought about the fact that the reason she's doing that is because she's sacred that he still might want U... Close the door on him for the mere fact that U R too much woman for him. ..he wasn't even man enough to face you or man enough to tell U... He sent U a text. ..Wow and he did it after staying out cause he was busted. .. She should be sacred and hope when she marries him that he doesn't do the same to her too.
Fill your void by spending time meditating on God and His Word. Every time you find yourself thinking about him or that woman ...focus on God. Get Spiritual Strong..The Word says Seek the things of The Kingdom and all other things will be added to U. To focus on other things serves as a distraction

Thank you for your wisdom and food for thought. Good advice. I will try. It's just still so hard.

P.S. I did find out that he has cheated on this one with the 2nd woman that he cheated on me with. This one never found that out thought. Husband is an artful liar and artful actor. Got away with it. I am of the belief that he is a sociopath and severely mentally disordered. I know ai am better off without him...it's just that I miss the person he sometimes pretended to be, the illusion.

Dear Lord
i ask that You Oh Mighlty God please Bring Your Healing Touch to her broken heart as You and You Only Can Do
in Jesus Name
and Lord please Help her focus on other the passion things that You and You Only Have Bless her Your Child in Christ Jesus with
what ever that may be to use for her Oh Lord for distraction while You Can Bring Your Wonderful Healing in the process
i ask and pray all in Jesus Name

and Lord as a person as i You Know Oh Lord that suffers from mental disorder if this guy does have this please Lord Take Over and get him help so he doesnot countine go down this dark dark path
please open his eyes to what he has done and what he is doing so Lord You and You Only Oh Lord Can Bring him to Jesus

and Lord please put God Fearing and Loving People from You and You Only Oh Lord that Can to Encourge this lady in Jesus Christ i pray Amen

Your prayer of healing has moved me to tears. Thank you so much for caring that much to do that for me. I am just amazed at how kind and caring people that don't even know me can be. I have no family so other than God I have been all alone in all of this and that has made going through something like this that much harder for me. Thank you again.... and thank you to all of you kind people. You will never know how much this has meant to me. I will thank God for this gift and keep you all in my prayers too. Bless you all and for those that have prayed for me and my struggles.