Are you referring to
%u201C1 Corinthians 7:8%u20139 (ESV): 8�To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. 9�But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. %u201C?
I personally believe that the people with the gift of being single for the Lord know that they have it by a complete lack of desire for a romantic relationship. If you want to marry, this isn%u2019t referring to you. Hope that helps. God bless!

Thank you for your comemnt and for clarifying this for me.
God bless you.