Going thru the same thing right now..but I remember..God OS never wrong..if He put two people together, is for the edifying of His name..don't let the enemy in..fight the spirit of division..not each other..be blessed always in the love of our Savior..

I too am going thru the same thing. My husband wants a separation. I will continue to keep u both in prayer.

TRY A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR OR GO SEE A THERAPIST ALONE. SOMEONE IS NOT HAPPY. YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY YOURSELF AND LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH ANOTHER. PUT A LOOSE RUBBERBAND ON YOUR WRIST. EVERY TIME YOU THINK, DO, OR SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE...SNAP IT ON YOUR WRIST. SAY OUTLOUD,"OOPS, I'M SORRY; OR FORGIVE, ME, HONEY." IF YOU GRUMP, COMPLAIN, FIGHT...SNAP THAT BAND! BEG PARDON TO THE OTHER. IT WONT TAKE MORE THAN A DAY TO NOTICE HOW OFTEN NEGATIVITY AND BAD MANNERS ARE THE ROOT OF YOUR PROBLEMS. COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER FOR BEING NICE AND POSITIVE. DO ONE NUCE THING FOR EACH OTHER EVERY DAY. REMEMBER WHY YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER, TO BEGIN WITH. MAKE A POSITIVE LIST AND A PROBLEM LIST ON THE OTHER; THEN TRADE IT AND HAVE ONE ANOTHER WRITE DOWN BESIDE THE PROBLEM PART- A SOLUTION TO MAKE IT BETTER. NO FIGHTING OR ARGUING ON THIS! TRY TO BE REALISTIC AND WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE. IF YOU MISBEHAVE...SNAP!

GOOD LUCK. KEEP US INFORMED. WE ALL WILL PRAY FOR YOU ALL. IF ONE SPOUSE WONT DO THIS...DO IT ALONE.. EVEN THE POSITIVE AND PROBLEM LIST.JUST TRYING WILL HEKP YOU BOTH.

Thank you.