Abuse seldom gets better. It most often gets worse. This has been proven time & again. I lived with abuse for years & learned it to be true. Leaving my abuser was the hardest thing to do, but I finally did. As much as I loved my abusive husband, I had to love myself more as the abuse could have lead to my death. I pray you take yourself & any children (if you have them) to a safe place. Do not fall for the, "I'll do better" plea. That will not last - maybe a month or 2 or 3 - without lots of therapy. Most abusers won't recognize the problem of abuse & will deny there is a problem. Most who do will refuse to get help &/or treatment/therapy. Only a very small few have tried & overcome. Pray for your abuser, but please do it from a distance..... I pray for the safety of you & any others affected by the abuse. I pray your abuser will see the truth of his/her abusive ways & seek help to change for the better & stick with it.

Thank you!
Please keep me in your prayers I feel like I don't have any strength at all to do anything at the moment but you are right one has to leave this negativity and terrible treatment..

I've had many years' emotional abuse from family member, and know it's hard to leave because they up the ante or threaten or make false promises or they "didn't mean it / it's not ridicule / I'm only teasing / you're dreaming/ you're imagining it" or send u on a guilt trip, call u selfish.....they trap you. It's vile. I don't have the courage (or support) to get out. Abuse is hard going, stressful. I've known one friend who admitted, after her abusive husband had died, that he'd repeatedly rape her; she also found he'd repeatedly raped his granddaughter. This was while he was still living, and he was prosecuted.
I have the mental scars of emotional traumas, and know how abuse can be. It's not you, it's your abuser who's wrong. I need to remember this myself, to keep sane

I appreciate your comment. Thank you. I really do feel trapped and its affecting me in every way. I feel exhausted, stressed and anxious.
Yes and I am being blamed for everything.
It's a mental prison...

I know that trapped feeling. I lived with it & felt powerless. I was blessed with an understanding & helpful minister & family. Being blamed for everything is one of the abuser's delusions. It is common to almost all (if not all) abusers.... I pray our Heavenly Father will intercede in both your lives & bless you with safe & secure lives away from any & all abusive people. I pray He will also bless you to have good, loving, caring, compassionate, honest, & trustworthy people all throughout your lives.

I feel so grateful for your prayers. They mean a lot to me.
I forgot what good days should feel like.

Thank you so much :)

God bless