Mrs. E, i'am so sorry for what you are going through. Sometimes we just don't understand why these things happen. But u need to know that the Lord Loves you & he is feeling your pain. My niece is only 20 years old & just miscarried her baby & it would have been her first child ever. But just know that God is with you both & so am i. I know what i'am saying to you may not be comforting to hear, but i'am trying to find the right words.
You & your husband need to grieve & talk about this. You need to lean on each other & to comfort one another. Your all you have besides God. Share your feelings abour what happen & cry if you need to. Don't hold anything back from each other. Let it all out. It will help you both to do this. Pray out to God.
Reach out to him & let him comfort you. My name is Danielle & if you need to talk or need prayer please email me at [email hidden from spammers] & you can email me anytime, anyday, no matter the hour. I'am here if u need me. Feel free to email me when you need me. Your. Both in my prayers.

God Bless You,
Danielle