Abuse is abuse by a man or a woman & this is not write. You deserve so much better & god hears & see's what you are going through. Please protect yourself & don't let her hit you & abuse you. You deserve so much better. I care about you & want to help. I have a prayer email set up for people to send me their prayer requests & i will answer them back by me praying for them. My prayer email is [email hidden from spammers] & if you need to talk my chat email is [email hidden from spammers] & you can email me anytime, anyday, no matter the hour. Please do not get discouraged if I don't answer you right away just know that I'm probably busy, but i will always get back to you ok. Please for the sake of yourself leave. You might love & care for her, but you need to protect yourself. If you stay you might not make it. I see & hear this all the time on the news & it is not pretty. God understands if you left her. He doesnot like to see people abusing people. That is not what marriage is about. Please help her & help yourself by getting out of this. I'm here for you. I'm not saying this to mean or to hurt you & i just want to see you safe & alive. Please contact me. I can help you if you want it. Your in my prayers. God Bless You! In Christ Jesus, Danielle

Please here what I'm saying. I think you know down deep inside you know I'm right & you can't go on this way any longer. And if you have Kids it is important to save & to protect yourself & your Kids. Please i'm protect yourself. My heart aches for you & my eyes are filled with. Tears seeing you go through this. Please email me. Let me help you. My prayer email again is [email hidden from spammers] & my chat email is [email hidden from spammers] & I hope to hear from you. Your in my orayers & thoughts. God Bless You! In Christ Jesus, Danielle

You are living a very unhealthy life due to this toxic relationship. It is clear that your wife has serious anger management issues and is engaging in inappropriate behaviors in front of children. You may not want to get a divorce, however, a legal separation may be a better option.

Your wife does not respect you. Once respect no longer exists, the marriage is exposed to even more attacks by the enemy. I pray that You walk in faith, even as small as a tiny mustard seed. With God's power, place yourself and your children in s in Jesus' name.

They are very much telling you the truth of it. If you stay, you are putting yourself in danger. You need to call a domestic violence hotline today and talk to a counselor.!! If you decide to leave, make sure you get all your belongings out before you inform her..because whatever you leave, she will destroy! That's all records and paperwork too...like bank statement, checkbook, marriage certificate, etc. Take money out of the bank, enough what you need, then take your name off your acct asap. Go to a different bank and open up one in your name only. This is important!
**From personal experience with another's behaviour, she sounds bi-polar and she needs medicine. If you are advised to get a restraining order on get-out do it. She's very controlling and wants to put you in pain and hurt you any way she can.
Make a Dr. Appt. For yourself and discuss the situation with them. Do what they tell you and make sure you show the Dr any bruises or injuries. It wont prove that your wife did them - but it will prove that you have visited the Dr. For the problem and will tellthat you have a problem.
Please call that hotline now asap. Please let us know how you are doing and how your wife is too. We all are praying for you both. GodSpeed.

THERES ALL DEGREES OF BEING BI-POLAR, AND SHE SOUNDS VERY SEVERE...EVEN MORE THAN NORMAL.

Oh, if you stay...you are also putting YOUR children IN DANGER...HAVE YOU TALKED TO YOUR CHILDREN TO SEE WHAT SHE HAD SAID AND DONE TO THEM WHEN YOUR NOT AROUND. THEY NEED TO GO TO THE DR. VISIT WITH YOU. YOU WILL GET EVEN MORE HELP SINCE CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED. (FOOD STAMPS, COUNSELING, WELFARE) IF YOU NEED IT.

To Danielle above:


Thanks for the advice about my marriage on the prayer app. I'm the guy in the abusive marriage. I am asking for prayer warriors to please keep me in your prayers. I have been asking God for his will to be done. I dis have to leave. She packed up all my belongings and called me, she told me that I had till a certain time to come get them or she would put all my stuff in the dumpster. I went to pick up my stuff and it wouldn't fit in my car. She ended up being pretty nice about it. I just don't know which way to turn, I was mad for a while and the situation didn't bother me as bad, now I'm hurting beyond belief. I feel like I walked away, when she needs me the most. I need to hear from the Lord. I even called her today and begged her for marriage counseling. I Know something is not right and I feel she needs me. I also feel that we are under an attack by satan and he's just trying to steal my marriage. She gets so physical and she destroys my belongings when she gets mad. She also talks about me like a dog to everyone. She needs help and she doesn't even think somethings wrong. The doctor put her on Testosterone pills and it made her worse. She has been very violent to me and hasn't even been civil in a long time. I have to work a lot of hours because the economy has been very devastating on my career. She has contact several of the ladies that work with me, she has even went to my bosses office and tried to get me fired and he told her that I was a hard worker and everyone loves me and there is absolutely no way that I have been unfaithful to her. It's really sad when the people I work with, knows me better than my wife does. I just don't want the devil to steal marriage when it's based off of all lies that he has told her. Please be in prayer for me and my family. She is a good mom to our kids. She has done a lot of this in front of them but I'm sure she won't hurt the kids. She is so angry at me and she tries really hard to get me back for things satan has told her that I have done. My prayer is that Jesus reveals to her that this is from satan. Thanks so much for your prayers and your concerns.�

God will truly bless you for doing what you are doing.�

Thanks,