Lord help us me I am running out of patience my son's girlfriend came to live with him him with us my son had a double wide mobile home I helped him and his girlfriend with the down payment and they were together for almost eight or more years then she got a night weekend job where she stayed all weekend and my son at home just got closer to this girl and her husband and two sons were friends The girls were and are not sisters but the first girl dad married the second girl mom Lord things have got so complecated I am at no ends what to do now my son left her last October with the home the truck wanted nothing just his freedom and left everything I and my husband are so hurt cause we did so much for the two of them and now he is home she is all set stayed with everything and now my son has the other girl living here at our home and she had her two sons only every other weekend but now when School started she just moved them in didn't ask us or nothing like she owns our home Lord where is the respect then now they live in our home they go to school they are small boys 6/8 Lord you know what happened between them but now everything is more living here all our bills have gone up which I can deal with except for 15 years in our home we have had no one live with us only my other son which moved and married now my problems Lord as you know my home is not the same she doesn't clean she don't pick up after her kids where they eat the dishes stay she expects my son to do it Lord they are her children it's ok for my son to help he loves them dearly does so much for them as you Lord see he needs to find a job and pay for his car Lord I have paid it for one year I have told them both she just got a job but does not pay nothing just spends on her kids doesn't get child support they are still married I don't know what to do anymore Lord I leave this all in your hands you see what's going on Lord they don't seem to care leave lights on all the time run tv like they have no off button and so on which you see Lord now my son girl that we helped with down payment put up all the fence help so much is going on with her life has a boyfriend and he stays there she leaves close by and I really feel bad seeing what we helped the with have her and someone else enjoy it it's something my mind is having problems dealing with I know Lord for old things are passed and forgotten but it is hard seeing my son home with this girl knowing she and his other girl parents are married I just need help to learn to move on and put this behind can I Lord will we move on and how do we move on when I haven't been able to enjoy my home in a year since all this has been going on when she just moved in her boys like it was her home I don't understand that and my son had a job but now she says he needs to take her kids to school and pick them up and her to work but yet she don't want to make an effort on paying the car payment but they sure use it Lord I use to have a job 100 hours a week and now I don't I cant even make ends meet and I tell them when are you paying the car they are three payments behind she said after the year she needed to buy gifts for her boys ok but the car who suppose to pay it when my son won't work cause he is so devoted to her and her sons nothing else matters I am at my wit ends here Lord please help me I just can't take care of this situation only you Lord can pray for me my family