If his cheating and ya seeing a counselor....well your a fool if you stay with him....once a player always a player....u don't need a man to take care of your kids...I hope everything goes well...

I hope it all goes well. Adultery can harm you the mother. There are dangerous diseases out there that kill. Your life is valuable. I will pray for u.

Unfortunately I just went through a similar situation. Painful to have your heart broken twice by the same person. Tell your husband you appreciate his offer to reconcile but until he decides to fully commit to reconciliation he isn't ready to be the husband God wants for you. If and when he gets to that point tell him to approach you then. In the meantime, keep working on yourself. Focus on becoming the person God wants you to. be. Go to counseling by yourself. God will heal your heart.

Shirley, i'am so sorry to see what you are going through. My advise is for you to seek God & find out what he wants you to do. As christians we are supposed to forgive but it doesn't mean we have to put up with it. Continue on with the help you & your husband are getting & see what unfolds. You know how God feel s about adultry. I have a prayer email for people to send me theirprayer requests & as they send me their I will answer them back with me praying for them. My prayer email is [email hidden from spammers] .com- you can email me anytime anyday no matter the hour. Do not get discourage if I don't answer right away it just probably means i'am busy but I will always get back to you.I will continue to pray for the situation & for you & your kids. God Bless You! In Christ Jesus, Danielle

It breaks my heart to hear this him. I agree with one of the ladies. God HATES adultery, you should just pray and pray and get your life back together with or without him. Focus on you and your babies. God says he will have his revenge on those who hurt his people. I know its hard but do it for your babies. Also if you want to divorce but are afraid, I'm almost positive it says you can in the bible under certain circumstances like the one your going through. You will be in my prayers. God bless